I have searched through my estrangements.com blog and can’t find any place where I even speculate about my ex or my son-in-law influencing my daughter negatively. I’m not saying it’s not there but I can’t find it.

It may be on the discussion board where my daughter searched out my old posts. There is no point in my searching through the board for those posts. This is weird. She talks about ME invading her PRIVACY by visiting her website and she has gone and searched out my posts on a discussion board where I talked about estrangement thinking that I was pretty safe as far as expressing my thoughts and feelings with others there. What I said there was not meant for her eyes nor for her husband’s eyes. And it was not said from knowledge of what was happening in her life but was due to my wondering what was going on.

This is a lesson in what the internet is. It is a public place. I
was not as careful as I should have been. You have to be a member of
that group in order to search it. You can’t find what is on it by doing
a search on the internet. You have to join. So she joined and read my
posts and then shared that information with her husband and her
mother-in-law and others.

I do appreciate any support from my ex who doesn’t talk to me and
from my son-in-law who I haven’t seen or spoken to in many years. Thank
you!

As far as things that I have discussed on a discussion board, it was
a discussion that was not between my daughter and me and was with
people who did not know her, my son-in-law or her father. I did no harm
to anyone by discussing my estrangements in that group. The group was
helpful to me. While I am open on my own website about a lot of things,
I do censor myself and there are certain things I do not share, certain
things that only two of us know, certain things that would be overtly
hurtful to others. I have always done this censoring because there
would be no positive purpose in my sharing these things and because
there is a boundary that I would not cross and have not crossed when it
comes to privacy.

Snicks