{"id":329,"date":"2005-11-01T12:41:00","date_gmt":"2005-11-01T12:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2005\/11\/01\/having_searched\/"},"modified":"2005-11-01T12:41:00","modified_gmt":"2005-11-01T12:41:00","slug":"having_searched","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2005\/11\/01\/having_searched\/","title":{"rendered":"<h2>Having searched through my estrangements.com blog &#8230;<\/h2>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have searched through my estrangements.com blog and can&#8217;t find any place where I even speculate about my ex or my son-in-law influencing my daughter negatively. I&#8217;m not saying it&#8217;s not there but I can&#8217;t find it.<\/p>\n<p>It may be on the discussion board where my daughter searched out my old posts. There is no point in my searching through the board for those posts. This is weird. She talks about ME invading her PRIVACY by visiting her website and she has gone and searched out my posts on a discussion board where I talked about estrangement thinking that I was pretty safe as far as expressing my thoughts and feelings with others there. What I said there was not meant for her eyes nor for her husband&#8217;s eyes. And it was not said from knowledge of what was happening in her life but was due to my wondering what was going on. <\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>This is a lesson in what the internet is. It is a public place. I<br \/>\nwas not as careful as I should have been. You have to be a member of<br \/>\nthat group in order to search it. You can&#8217;t find what is on it by doing<br \/>\na search on the internet. You have to join. So she joined and read my<br \/>\nposts and then shared that information with her husband and her<br \/>\nmother-in-law and others.\n<\/p>\n<p>I do appreciate any support from my ex who doesn&#8217;t talk to me and<br \/>\nfrom my son-in-law who I haven&#8217;t seen or spoken to in many years. Thank<br \/>\nyou! <\/p>\n<p>As far as things that I have discussed on a discussion board, it was<br \/>\na discussion that was not between my daughter and me and was with<br \/>\npeople who did not know her, my son-in-law or her father. I did no harm<br \/>\nto anyone by discussing my estrangements in that group. The group was<br \/>\nhelpful to me. While I am open on my own website about a lot of things,<br \/>\nI do censor myself and there are certain things I do not share, certain<br \/>\nthings that only two of us know, certain things that would be overtly<br \/>\nhurtful to others. I have always done this censoring because there<br \/>\nwould be no positive purpose in my sharing these things and because<br \/>\nthere is a boundary that I would not cross and have not crossed when it<br \/>\ncomes to privacy.<\/p>\n<p>Snicks<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have searched through my estrangements.com blog and can&#8217;t find any place where I even speculate about my ex or my son-in-law influencing my daughter negatively. I&#8217;m not saying it&#8217;s not there but I can&#8217;t find it. It may be on the discussion board where my daughter searched out my old posts. There is no&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,69],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-329","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-for-parents","category-weblogs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/329","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=329"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/329\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=329"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=329"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=329"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}