Hoping that the Minnesota Mom comes back to read on Typepad rather than LiveJournal one of these days and sees this.<\/p>\n
Dear Minnesota Mom,<\/p>\n
There was a time when my thinking about kids was similar to yours. Not entirely and I don’t think and feel that way any more but, yes, there was a time when my thinking was much different than it is now. This is because when you go through several kinds of life experiences, you begin to appreciate more the concept of having walked in someone else’s shoes, even those of people whom you didn’t understand at all once upon a time.<\/p>\n
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BTW I am not retired and do not have lots of time on my hands to
\nexpect any relatives to entertain me. I wasn’t retired with lots of my
\ntime on my hands 10 years ago. I never ever ever tried to experience
\nlife vicariously through anyone else or define myself through my role
\nas mother. Far from it. I have been extremely busy in my own life and I
\nhave lots and lots and lots of stuff to keep me busy for a long long
\ntime. <\/p>\n
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\nstory yet. I keep telling myself that someday my son will have a life
\nof HIS own, and that is when the real test occurs. God help me."<\/em><\/p>\n
\nthe sentiment expressed in those last three words and I wish you and
\nyour son the best. Perhaps, being a son, the chances of difficulty will
\nbe less than if he was a daughter. I do hear from more mothers of
\ndaughters than I do from mothers of sons. Right now I can’t recall if I
\nhave EVER heard from the mother of a son who estranged himself although
\nI have read of mother\/son estrangements.<\/p>\n
\nLiveJournal, the blog continues now on Typepad and no Comments on
\nLiveJournal will be responded to there.<\/p>\n
\nSnicks<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"