{"id":169,"date":"2007-04-25T00:54:06","date_gmt":"2007-04-25T00:54:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2007\/04\/25\/how_estrangemen\/"},"modified":"2007-04-25T00:54:06","modified_gmt":"2007-04-25T00:54:06","slug":"how_estrangemen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2007\/04\/25\/how_estrangemen\/","title":{"rendered":"<h2>How estrangements begin &#8230;<\/h2>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of my favorite online sites for interesting reading and discussion is Salon.com. Alec Baldwin has been in the news the last few days. I picture him like a deer caught in the headlights of the media with his mouth open and epithets spilling out.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know the circumstances of his breakup with Kim Basinger. My<br \/>\nmemory of them as a couple includes a documentary of them on a boat<br \/>\nsomewhere and him rubbing her feet and being affectionate. He appeared to adore her and she appeared to adore being adored. From that memory to<br \/>\nthis voice mail tirade at his 11 year old daughter. <\/p>\n<p>My imagination tries to fill in the blanks.<br \/>\nHaving been through a bitter divorce and having felt fury at times when<br \/>\nprovoked not by action but inaction, I can kind of relate to Mr.<br \/>\nBaldwin&#8217;s anger. On the other hand, if anyone called me a little piggy,<br \/>\nwhether I was 12 years old or sixty, I am quite sure that I would be<br \/>\nhard pressed not to react with fury of my own.<\/p>\n<p>\nOn Salon.com tonight I found <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/mwt\/feature\/2007\/04\/25\/hotheads\/\">an article on the Baldwin brouhaha<\/a> that resonated with me. It is<br \/>\nthe sort of article that I halfway love while at the same time<br \/>\nwondering if I am missing something and shouldn&#8217;t be loving it. Perhaps<br \/>\nI should be full of indignation and righteous anger?<\/p>\n<p>\nOn the other hand, the sad unfunny part of the Baldwin\/Basinger saga is that it might be the beginning of one more sad<br \/>\nestrangement between a parent and a child. <\/p>\n<p>I think that Alex Baldwin does love his daughter Ireland<br \/>\nand that his anger is evidence of his love. He is hurt. She is only 11.<br \/>\nHe is reacting as though she is older and more mature and should know<br \/>\nenough not to hurt him. But she is only 11 and caught in the middle.<br \/>\nShe is so lucky to have a father who cares so much about her and who<br \/>\nloves her, regardless of whether he is so angry that he calls her a pig<br \/>\nwhen he is hurt. She is so fortunate. But there is a very good chance<br \/>\nthat Ireland won&#8217;t see it that way and that this may be the beginning<br \/>\nof a long and painful estrangement.<\/p>\n<p>\nGinny<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my favorite online sites for interesting reading and discussion is Salon.com. Alec Baldwin has been in the news the last few days. I picture him like a deer caught in the headlights of the media with his mouth open and epithets spilling out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[69],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-weblogs"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=169"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}