{"id":150,"date":"2007-09-29T12:23:19","date_gmt":"2007-09-29T12:23:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2007\/09\/29\/do-you-want-to\/"},"modified":"2007-09-29T12:23:19","modified_gmt":"2007-09-29T12:23:19","slug":"do-you-want-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/2007\/09\/29\/do-you-want-to\/","title":{"rendered":"<h3>Do you want to discuss your estrangement online?<\/h3>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you would be interested in participating in a private online discussion group on estrangement, please email me at&nbsp; imajgin@yahoo.com. If I receive at least ten emails of interest in being invited to a<br \/>\ndiscussion group by November 15, I will set up one or two private groups for<br \/>\ndiscussion.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If I set up two groups, one would be for those who see<br \/>\nthemselves as having initiated their estrangement. Do you see yourself<br \/>\nas an Estranger? The second group would be for those who see themselves<br \/>\nas having been<br \/>\nestranged by someone they loved. Do you see yourself as an Estrangee?<\/p>\n<p>These groups, like this blog and the<br \/>\nEstrangements website, would be for those who are experiencing<br \/>\nestrangement from adopted or blood relatives. The groups would not be for wives or husbands who feel<br \/>\nestranged by separation and divorce from their former spouses.<\/p>\n<p>\nIf you are interested in participating in a discussion, I suggest selecting<br \/>\na user name that would not identify you personally. You could set up a<br \/>\nfree account on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sixapart.com\/typekey\/\">Typekey<\/a> and use a nickname for that purpose. I can set groups up to be accessible by password so that they can be read only by those who are invited to participate. <\/p>\n<p>If there are enough interested for me to go ahead and set up one or more groups, I would open up more groups in the future if there were more people interested rather than subscribing more people to a group. My personal experience in a private group is that it works well at a small size. If there are a lot of people subscribed and only a few participate, then there is that sense of unease over who the lurkers are&nbsp; which only gets worse as the number of inactive participants increase. Plus it&#8217;s harder for a large number of people to have a discussion than it is for a small number.<\/p>\n<p>\nLet me know with an email if you are interested in being part of a group. Your email to me can be as simple as that you are<br \/>\ninterested in being part of a discussion group and would like to be<br \/>\ninvited if one is set up. You don&#8217;t need to tell me anything else about<br \/>\nyourself although you might specify whether you see yourself as an<br \/>\n&quot;estranger&quot; or an &quot;estrangee&quot;. <\/p>\n<p>An estrangee is someone who has been<br \/>\nestranged unwillingly by someone else. An estranger is someone who has<br \/>\ndecided to do the estranging. I know that this is not always clear as<br \/>\nsometimes we may feel as though the other person has pushed us into the<br \/>\ndecision or that someone else may see us as having estranged them when<br \/>\nthey have done something unacceptable. But if you feel that you are<br \/>\nmore one way than another, let me know that along with your interest in discussing things.<\/p>\n<p>(Note added on November 5: I have heard from eight people so far who are interested in a discussion group.)<\/p>\n<p>Ginny<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you would be interested in participating in a private online discussion group on estrangement, please email me at&nbsp; imajgin@yahoo.com. If I receive at least ten emails of interest in being invited to a discussion group by November 15, I will set up one or two private groups for discussion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[69],"tags":[54,120],"class_list":["post-150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-weblogs","tag-estrangement","tag-estrangements"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=150"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/estrangements.com\/theblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}